Text the romance back
When was the last time you got a romantic text message from that special person in your life, that made you have butterflies in your stomach?
Some love messages that made you smile?
Or a flirty text message that took your breath away?
How about a sexy text message that made you blush a little?
Or a romantic text message full of love that made you feel like you were the most special person in the world?
Or is the reality that you get text messages about practical things, like picking up groceries on the way home from work? Or the i’m going to be late home from work text? Or the what are we having for tea text? Or you get no text messages at all from your special person?
Do you come home and fall into the familiar routine that’s become boring? Has the fire gone out in your relationship? Do you look forward to early nights…. alone?
Do you sometimes wonder why the sparks aren’t there like when you first met?
Sound familiar? It doesn’t have to be like this! You need to text the romance back! You can easily take steps to get that fizz and sparkle back into your relationship by sending romantic text messages!
Text the romance back in your life
In my relationship i had this problem. The initial romance had died down. The romantic fire in my relationship had dwindled and wasn’t even warm! I have always been of the opinion that relationships need input and nurturing along the way. I had neglected our relationship and not put a lot back in and neither had my boyfriend. Successful relationships need input and investment. Without it things can become mundane and predictable. That’s how people get bored. I was bored! I needed to text the romance back!
Whether you are male or female, we all need to know we are appreciated. We need to know that our partner finds us attractive. We need positivity from our loved one. We need to know we are loved and accepted. Remember those early days when you would catch yourself looking at your partner and smiling, or catch them looking at you? When you felt connected to them and everything was exciting and new? When nothing was too much trouble or effort? That’s because in the early stages of a relationship we put an extra effort in. We go the extra mile. We strive to impress. We want to make a good impression. We shower them with compliments and feel good phrases. When we get established into a relationship, all this effort that we put in, can often get lost along the way.
In any relationship, things will always settle into a routine eventually. Its inevitable. But its not inevitable that the spark has to fizzle out!
I did some research into ideas of injecting a little romance back into my relationship. I found Michael Fiore’s book Text the Romance Back.
It struck a chord with me. It explained how i was missing a great opportunity on how to get the love back into my relationship with the use of romantic text messages. It wasn’t something i had thought about before. I used text messages all the time, to text my friends, to keep in touch with people, but i hadn’t used romantic text messages as a relationship tool. I had also been waiting for my boyfriend to take the lead in the romance department. But on reflection he was probably waiting for some signal from me. I came to the conclusion that it didn’t matter who tried to get the romance back, as long as someone did! I used text the romance back and it was a good relationship tool and i had a lot of fun with it.
Sometimes men aren’t comfortable with expressing romantic feelings towards their special lady. This can be a big oversight as the ladies love the romance! So using romantic text messages is the perfect solution!
Ready….. Steady….. Text!
Text messaging is a fantastic communication medium. Its so accessible and convenient. Its fast and messages can be short or long, you can be bold or flirty. Flirting is a great way to make your loved one feel like are desirable. Using text messages to flirt works for both guys and girls. We all love the flirting!
It’s all about building anticipation. Think back to when you were both dating. Remember when you checked your phones a hundred times to see if they had sent you a text message? Or check how long it had been since they texted you? Most of us have done this at some time or another.
Send your special person a text message that’s unexpected. Send them a romantic text! Be flirty! Be spontaneous! Sexting is a great way of spicing up your love life and the next step after you have mastered romantic texts. You can tease him/her. Don’t be explicit. Hint at it. Let his/her imagination run wild! Create the thrill of anticipation. You won’t be sorry. Be unpredictable! This will take your relationship to another level.
I sent “You have been on my mind a lot today” to my boyfriend. I also put a winking emoticon at the end. Have you seen how many variations of smiley faces there are? If you have a phone with emoticons, use them to enhance your messages. Send a little romantic picture. The possibilities are endless!
Even if you don’t have a all singing and all dancing phone, its simple! 😉 Can you see it? my cheeky wink? It’s just a semi colon, a dash and a bracket! Simple. It adds a little something to the message with a cheeky wink. It’s a little suggestive, a little leading and builds that anticipation of thinking about what i mean. That’s the result you want. The mind working overtime!
I got a message back from my boyfriend almost immediately. I left a little time to build that anticipation and sent another text message. It worked so well! Messages were going back and forth. Fast forward a few weeks and he’s texting me romantic text messages when i’m not expecting him to. I respond with compliments and i receive them in return. I feel good and he feels good that we appreciate each other. Love Messages work!
Examples of Flirty Text Messages
Here are a few ideas of flirty texts to send your boyfriend or girlfriend and turn up the flirting!
1) I fancy an early night………… with you
2) I can’t stop thinking about you
3) You make my skin tingle when you ______________
You can get a few flirty text ideas from those above to turn up the heat. Its easy when you know how to send romantic texts! The possibilities are endless!
A little romance goes a long way
Love Text Messages
We all have jobs, busy lives, and commitments that often become a priority before our loved one. They often get put on the back burner whilst our attention is focused elsewhere. That’s when little niggles can start to appear in relationships. Nobody wants to be taken for granted, or feel like they are at the bottom of a long list in our life. A good analogy is a ATM or cash machine……. if you keep taking money from it without making any deposits, one day you will put your card in and there’s no money going to come out. It’s the same in relationships. If you keep taking from the relationship and don’t invest back in it, soon enough there won’t be any feel good bits left, compliments will dry up and appreciation will be low!
We all want to be loved. We all want to be secure in our relationships. When you put effort into your relationship, it can pay you back in positivity time and time again. When you are appreciated you want to do things for your special person in your life. They let you know that they appreciate you and you want to do it again and more. When that special person does things for you and they are appreciated, they will want to do more and more for you. Its investing in your relationship and everyone is a winner!
Here is somewhere you can start with – just check it out here.