How to get a man to commit

How to get a man to commit and how to make him want you

Why Won’t He Commit?

Contrary to what most women think, men are not afraid of commitment, they are afraid of committing to the wrong woman. So what can you do about it? How can you get a man to commit to you? It’s easy, just be a woman that men adore.

As women we often think that men have all the power when it comes to whether or not we’ll marry or be with a man who wants to commit to us. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Using our femininity in just the right way can bring a man to his knees…hopefully with a ring in his hand!

So what can we do to be a woman that men adore? How can we behave in a way that will make any man want to be with us?

So, how to make him want you? Read on.

How to be a woman a man will want to commit to.

In simple terms all you have to do is make him feel good. Make him feel good when he’s with you, make him feel good when he’s not with you but thinks about you. A man will stay with a woman who makes him feel good, but he won’t stay with a woman who doesn’t.

When you’re with him be fun, happy, spontaneous. Don’t nag him, don’t pick fights or belittle him, don’t create drama – men hate drama. Men don’t commit to women who thrive on drama.

You want him to have only good memories of the time he spends with you. You want him walking away from you not being able to wait until he can see you again.

If he talks about his achievements tell him you’re proud of him. At the end of each date thank him and tell him you had a good time. Laugh at his jokes (even the bad ones), and generally be fun to be with.

Be the woman your man will adore

How to captivate a man and get him to give you the world

Why he won’t commit.

If you’re struggling to get men to commit to you take a good long look at how you behave when you’re with your man. Are you doing too much for him? Do you cook his meals, do his laundry, clean up after him? As women we naturally want to take care of people and we think that if we behave like a typical wife our man will see us in that light and want to get us down the aisle as soon as possible, before someone else does. Unfortunately, this couldn’t be further from the truth.

In reality, men like a bit of a challenge. By nature they are competitive and will value something more highly if they’ve had to work for it. Trying too hard to please a man can be a big turn off for him. Instead of handing yourself to him on a platter try to keep yourself just out of his reach. If he doesn’t know exactly where he stands with you he’ll be intrigued and is likely to make more of an effort with you. He’ll see you as a prize and his competitive nature will make him want to go out and ‘win’ you.

Don’t always be available for him. Have a life of your own, go out with your friends, be busy. If you’re often too busy to take his calls he’ll wonder what you’re doing without him and will be watching the clock until you return his call.

What you should never, ever do is initiate ‘the talk’. Don’t ask him where this relationship is going, or if he thinks about marrying you, or having kids with you. Men hate these kinds of conversations and they can often ruin what was a very good relationship.

How To Tell If He’s Ready To Commit

It’s easy to tell if a man is ready to settle down and commit to you. He will make you a priority in his life, introduce you to his family and friends, talk about the future (one that includes you), let you leave your stuff at his place.

He’ll do everything in his power to make you happy; he’ll go out and get you candy in the pouring rain if you’re craving it, he’ll stock up on your favorite foods when he’s shopping, he’ll give you a back rub after a hard day at work and do it gladly.

He’ll want to spend time with you, even if it means doing things he doesn’t enjoy. He’ll gladly go shoe shopping with you…and hold your purse while you try on pair after endless pair.

He’ll be proud to be with you, even in a bar with his friends. He’ll want to go on weekend trips with you, even romantic ones that he wouldn’t normally dream of doing.

Once you meet a man who is ready to commit you’ll know it without having to ask him; he’ll make it obvious.

Get your man to commit to you and remember – be fun, be happy and make him feel good.

Text the romance back

Text the romance back

When was the last time you got a romantic text message from that special person in your life, that made you have butterflies in your stomach?

Some love messages that made you smile?

Or a flirty text message that took your breath away?

How about a sexy text message that made you blush a little?

Or a romantic text message full of love that made you feel like you were the most special person in the world?

Or is the reality that you get text messages about practical things, like picking up groceries on the way home from work? Or the i’m going to be late home from work text? Or the what are we having for tea text? Or you get no text messages at all from your special person?

Do you come home and fall into the familiar routine that’s become boring? Has the fire gone out in your relationship? Do you look forward to early nights…. alone?

Do you sometimes wonder why the sparks aren’t there like when you first met?

Sound familiar? It doesn’t have to be like this! You need to text the romance back! You can easily take steps to get that fizz and sparkle back into your relationship by sending romantic text messages!

Text the romance back in your life

Love Messages
In my relationship i had this problem. The initial romance had died down. The romantic fire in my relationship had dwindled and wasn’t even warm! I have always been of the opinion that relationships need input and nurturing along the way. I had neglected our relationship and not put a lot back in and neither had my boyfriend. Successful relationships need input and investment. Without it things can become mundane and predictable. That’s how people get bored. I was bored! I needed to text the romance back!

Whether you are male or female, we all need to know we are appreciated. We need to know that our partner finds us attractive. We need positivity from our loved one. We need to know we are loved and accepted. Remember those early days when you would catch yourself looking at your partner and smiling, or catch them looking at you? When you felt connected to them and everything was exciting and new? When nothing was too much trouble or effort? That’s because in the early stages of a relationship we put an extra effort in. We go the extra mile. We strive to impress. We want to make a good impression. We shower them with compliments and feel good phrases. When we get established into a relationship, all this effort that we put in, can often get lost along the way.

In any relationship, things will always settle into a routine eventually. Its inevitable. But its not inevitable that the spark has to fizzle out!

Romantic SMS

Love SMS
I did some research into ideas of injecting a little romance back into my relationship. I found Michael Fiore’s book Text the Romance Back.

It struck a chord with me. It explained how i was missing a great opportunity on how to get the love back into my relationship with the use of romantic text messages. It wasn’t something i had thought about before. I used text messages all the time, to text my friends, to keep in touch with people, but i hadn’t used romantic text messages as a relationship tool. I had also been waiting for my boyfriend to take the lead in the romance department. But on reflection he was probably waiting for some signal from me. I came to the conclusion that it didn’t matter who tried to get the romance back, as long as someone did! I used text the romance back and it was a good relationship tool and i had a lot of fun with it.

Sometimes men aren’t comfortable with expressing romantic feelings towards their special lady. This can be a big oversight as the ladies love the romance! So using romantic text messages is the perfect solution!
Ready….. Steady….. Text!
Romantic Messages
Text messaging is a fantastic communication medium. Its so accessible and convenient. Its fast and messages can be short or long, you can be bold or flirty. Flirting is a great way to make your loved one feel like are desirable. Using text messages to flirt works for both guys and girls. We all love the flirting!

It’s all about building anticipation. Think back to when you were both dating. Remember when you checked your phones a hundred times to see if they had sent you a text message? Or check how long it had been since they texted you? Most of us have done this at some time or another.

Send your special person a text message that’s unexpected. Send them a romantic text! Be flirty! Be spontaneous! Sexting is a great way of spicing up your love life and the next step after you have mastered romantic texts. You can tease him/her. Don’t be explicit. Hint at it. Let his/her imagination run wild! Create the thrill of anticipation. You won’t be sorry. Be unpredictable! This will take your relationship to another level.

I sent “You have been on my mind a lot today” to my boyfriend. I also put a winking emoticon at the end. Have you seen how many variations of smiley faces there are? If you have a phone with emoticons, use them to enhance your messages. Send a little romantic picture. The possibilities are endless!

Even if you don’t have a all singing and all dancing phone, its simple! 😉 Can you see it? my cheeky wink? It’s just a semi colon, a dash and a bracket! Simple. It adds a little something to the message with a cheeky wink. It’s a little suggestive, a little leading and builds that anticipation of thinking about what i mean. That’s the result you want. The mind working overtime!

I got a message back from my boyfriend almost immediately. I left a little time to build that anticipation and sent another text message. It worked so well! Messages were going back and forth. Fast forward a few weeks and he’s texting me romantic text messages when i’m not expecting him to. I respond with compliments and i receive them in return. I feel good and he feels good that we appreciate each other. Love Messages work!

Examples of Flirty Text Messages
Romantic Sayings

Here are a few ideas of flirty texts to send your boyfriend or girlfriend and turn up the flirting!

1) I fancy an early night………… with you

2) I can’t stop thinking about you

3) You make my skin tingle when you ______________

You can get a few flirty text ideas from those above to turn up the heat. Its easy when you know how to send romantic texts! The possibilities are endless!

A little romance goes a long way

Love Text Messages
We all have jobs, busy lives, and commitments that often become a priority before our loved one. They often get put on the back burner whilst our attention is focused elsewhere. That’s when little niggles can start to appear in relationships. Nobody wants to be taken for granted, or feel like they are at the bottom of a long list in our life. A good analogy is a ATM or cash machine……. if you keep taking money from it without making any deposits, one day you will put your card in and there’s no money going to come out. It’s the same in relationships. If you keep taking from the relationship and don’t invest back in it, soon enough there won’t be any feel good bits left, compliments will dry up and appreciation will be low!

We all want to be loved. We all want to be secure in our relationships. When you put effort into your relationship, it can pay you back in positivity time and time again. When you are appreciated you want to do things for your special person in your life. They let you know that they appreciate you and you want to do it again and more. When that special person does things for you and they are appreciated, they will want to do more and more for you. Its investing in your relationship and everyone is a winner!

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Love And Romantic Relationship

Relationship is one of the key factors in the survival of living being including humans. The mankind faced many disasters with bravery and achieved many feats just because of this key factor. The future of mankind also is depended on single word ‘relationship’.

There are many types of relationship which exist among humans but only one relationship type has been very important to almost everyone since the evolution of mankind. It is known as intimate relationship.

Intimate relationship is termed by these following characteristics: regular contacts, emotional connection, need fulfillment, and lasting behavioral interdependence. It is natural in humans to see the need to love and to be loved. An intimate relationship fulfills this need. Intimate relationships bring a person into a social network of people where that person feels strong emotional attachments to them. That person finds himself/herself being cared for and as a necessary part of the network.

It takes two persons to form an intimate relationship with each other. An intimate relationship is formed when the two persons create a lasting bond between them. This happens when they imply good conversation, openness, transparency and commitment in their relationship. Generally this kind of bond is known as love. The relationship formed by love is known as romantic relationship.

In a romantic relationship, the presence of love is very essential. Since a romantic relationship is intimately physical and emotional, evaluating it entirely based on love is not only tricky but impossible. You will find two types of love in a relationship. They are:

Passionate love
Compassionate love

In most romantic relationships, you will find passionate love. Passionate love is mainly accompanied by obsession, excitement and lust. This kind of love needs to be recharged often by reuniting with the partner. Otherwise, the chances are there that love will diminish and the romantic relationship will break-up soon.

On the other hand, compassionate love is strengthened by lasting bond, affection, mutual commitment and caring, and admirable communication. A romantic relationship which is built on compassionate love will hardly ever break-up.

There are many reasons for a romantic relationship to break-up. The reasons could be any but what really matters is to figure out the exact reason and take a proper action to save the romantic relationship. But is it really possible to save a broken-up romantic relationship? Yes! It is absolutely possible.

You can patch up with your boyfriend if you are a girl, or you can patch up with your girlfriend if you are a boy; even both of you are broken-up with each other. But you should know how to make proper moves. In addition, you must always remember that it takes sincere commitment, lots of patience and mental strength. Hence, it is not impossible to get back your boyfriend or girlfriend whom you still adore and care for.

How to patch up with girlfriend / tips to patch up with girlfriend

Tips to patch up with girlfriend

At the start of a new relationship, a boy and girl will try to adjust to each other and make the other person comfortable. After a while, as with all relationships, there will be ups and downs. Misunderstandings creep in and fights start. In the heat of the moment, both the boy and the girl decide to break up. After a few days (or hours), the boy may want to reconsider this decision. Here are some tips to patch up with your girlfriend.

– Analyze what went wrong. With a clear head, think about the reason for the fight and the subsequent break-up. Do not let your ego get in the way.

– Be prepared to apologize. Even if it was not entirely your fault, a genuine apology without any signs of neediness, will work wonders towards a patch up with your girlfriend. She will appreciate your efforts at understanding the technique of give and take in every relationship. When you finally do apologize, look her in the eye and say what you mean. This may prompt her to admit to her part in the break-up too.

– Do not rush into anything. Both of you require space and time to think things over. Do not do anything that you will regret later or that is too extreme. Calm down. Give yourselves time to once again build up the trust that you shared before the break-up.

– Do not show your neediness. Allow her to see that you can do without her, but that you are concerned about her and the relationship. Being emotional at this time will not work in your favour. Even if you feel frustrated and are depressed over the entire issue, as far as possible avoid appearing needy. Talk to your girlfriend casually, as you would with any other friend. This will enable her to relax when she is in your presence and she will not feel stressed.

– Be prepared to change. Show her that you are willing to make the effort to save the relationship. This will help you to regain her trust and increase her faith in the relationship.

– Allow her to have her say. She may want to yell at you and vent her frustration with you and the relationship. Do not pretend that you do not know what she’s talking about. When she calms down, tell her how you both can change and patch up your relationship.

– Say what’s on your mind. Be honest. Your girlfriend will want you to be transparent about your feelings. Discuss the problem and some possible solutions. Be patient and calm. Your trust and sincerity will ease her mind and help secure her heart.

Trust, love and communication are the most important factors in a relationship. Your girlfriend needs to know that you care and that you are giving her time to deal with the issue on her own. If both of you let go of the past and agree to start afresh, you can have a beautiful relationship together.

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How to patch up with boyfriend / tips to patch up with your boyfriend

All human beings need to love and be loved. When two persons create a lasing bond between them it is known as love and the two persons are in a romantic relationship. Sometimes this relationship breaks up due to various reasons and the two persons drift apart. At such times, it is important to try and figure out what went wrong and take proper measures to save the relationship. This article describes some ways to patch up with one’s boyfriend.

First, remember the old adage – absence makes the heart grow fonder. Try not to get in touch with your boyfriend for a while. As far as possible, avoid calling him on the phone or sending him messages or meeting him. The time apart will help you both to clear your minds and analyze your relationship. It will also allow him to miss you, which in turn will re-kindle the spark that got him interested in you at the beginning.

Second, do not panic either about the break-up or about patching up with your boyfriend. Remember that a break-up is not caused by only one person. Do not behave like a child or try to compensate with other indulgences. This will allow you to show your boyfriend that you value him and the relationship.

Third, it is pertinent to note that a man would prefer a relationship with a confident partner. He appreciates being admired. Find out the qualities that attracted you to him at the start of your relationship and focus on those qualities. This will greatly increase the understanding between both of you after you patch-up with your boyfriend.

Fourth, do not mope and feel sorry for yourself. Go out and meet your other friends. Take greater interest in your hobbies or start new ones. Do not let your health suffer. Get enough physical and mental nourishment and exercise so that you stay fit and healthy. Change your hairstyle or go shopping for new clothes and shoes, if it will make you feel better. Sometimes a change in makeup also helps. This will help you exude confidence if you happen to see your boyfriend again – and this could lead to a patch-up with your boyfriend.

Fifth, if you let your emotions get in the way it will lead to bad decisions which in turn will make it more difficult to patch up with your boyfriend. It would be best to try and make plans to get your relationship with your boyfriend back on track. This will be possible only after you have carried out more than one of the tips mentioned earlier in this article. Do not base your behavior only on your emotions – this may lead to more heat-ache.

A break-up may seem overwhelming at the beginning. You may feel confused and sad and lonely. You must realize that sincere commitment, patience and fortitude will get you through this difficult time. If you adore and care for him, it will not be long before you patch up with your boyfriend.

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